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Involuntary Hiatus & Favorite Posts

I didn’t intend to go this many days without writing.

I seem to have contracted some interminable virus, probably picked up while at the hospital with our youngest two weeks ago. I’ve been coughing ever since. Translated, that means I’m barely keeping up with the work around the house, much less writing anything coherent. I actually crawled into bed before 8pm last night and slept a solid 11 hours. That’s unheard of.

Instead of trying to make water come from a rock, I’m going to steal an idea from ScaryMommy, ThetaMom, and Big Mama 24/7, and share my favorite posts I wrote in 2010. Lists are easier than whole new posts… sort of.

January - What Heart Surgery Taught Me about Myself, Pain, and God Thoughts on why we can’t understand why God sometimes allows pain.

February – Light Reborn Celebrating Ellie and her life on what would have been her tenth birthday.

March - One of THOSE Days It’s incredible how much mischief children can cram into five hours.

April – The Wrong God A turning point in my turbulent faith journey.

May – How Potty-Training Will Earn Me a Caribbean Cruise in which I prove myself an accurate prophetess. (Laugh. It’s a joke.) Now, where did I put those cruise tickets?

June – Baring It All (Or Why I’m Not the Typical Fox-News-Watching Christian Mom) This post won the ThetaMom writing contest and was featured as a BlogHer Voice of the Week. I also caught a lot of flak, but the best posts strike nerves and make people think.

July – The Great Campus Security Maxi-Pad Caper After all the deep vulnurable writing in June, I needed to laugh and wrote this guest post on “Nurse’sNotes.”

August - Letters to the Wounded from the Wounded Ann Voskamp wrote a beautiful post in July “maybe the dark depths of us really long for the filling of a wounded, weeping God who doesn’t write answers in the stars but writes His ardency in our scars. With His scars.” This post is my response, another major milestone in my faith journey.

September – I didn’t find any favorites from September, so you get another August post: Sometimes Girls Just Want to Be Looked At. Men do have responsibility to control their thoughts and lusts.

October - Hello My Daughter Died My husband’s guest-post on the second anniversary of our daugher’s home-going.

November – Depression Is a Bad Boyfriend How does one break up with depression?

December - Sorrow Is Part of Christmas God knows what it’s like to watch a son suffer.

What was your favorite post, either of your own or of any that you read this year? I’d love to read it, so please share the link in the comments!

Merry Christmas!

Merry Christmas from our house to yours.

nativity scene

An angel of the Lord appeared to him [Joseph] in a dream and said, “Joseph son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary home as your wife, because what is conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit. She will give birth to a son, and you are to give him the name Jesus, because he will save his people from their sins.”

All this took place to fulfill what the Lord had said through the prophet: “The virgin will conceive and give birth to a son, and they will call him Immanuel” (which means “God with us”).

Matthew 1:20-23

Happy Independence Day, Britain!

thanksgivingWhy do so many have their underwear in a wad about the increasing numbers of people and businesses wishing people a happy holiday or expressing season’s greetings in December?

When you wish someone a happy holiday, you are talking to them, right? It’s about their holiday.

It would be ignorant to wish a Canadian a happy Thanksgiving on November 25 when they celebrate Thanksgiving on October 11.

It’s incongruous to wish a Brit a happy Independence Day. After all, that holiday celebrates our escape from British rule. Right?

menorah

We live in a country with people who follow a variety of faiths, nearly all of which celebrate a holiday in December. I celebrate Christmas, but I have friends who celebrate Hanukkah, Eid, Solstice, and Kwanzaa. If I’m wishing them a happy holiday, it’s about their holiday, not mine.

We can no longer assume everyone in the United States is Christian. And I disagree that this is a bad thing (but that’s another topic for another blog post). Given that reality, we can’t just ignore the holidays altogether — that would be weird. Yet it seems inappropriate to wish my Jewish and Muslim friends a Merry Christmas when I know they celebrate other holidays. When I don’t know for sure, I have no problem saying “happy holidays!” And I don’t mind at all when someone wishes me a happy holiday, too.

It isn’t about me, it’s about them.

Happy Holidays, friends!

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