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When Couples Grow Apart: Embracing Change (and Staying In Love)

'Free Souls Embrace Creative Commons' photo (c) 2006, D. Sharon Pruitt - license: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/2.0/My husband and I will celebrate our thirteenth anniversary in a few weeks. We’ve crammed a lot into those 13 years – the births of four children, countless vehicle purchases and sales, two children’s medical crises, six open-heart surgeries (all on kids), emergency hospital admissions, the death of a child, depression, changing churches, the death of a church, and the usual everyday irritations of rubbing shoulders with the same people day after day.

When we were engaged, I remember people telling us that marriage is hard work. After the wedding, I decided they were washed-up jaded cynics. We loved being married. Even after a few years, in the midst of life-threatening illness and major decisions, even though it wasn’t easy, I still didn’t see what all the nay-saying was about…

Click here to read the rest at KC’s blog, “Some Wise Guy: Life and Leadership for Dangerous Dads and Manly Men” where I’m writing for his weekly series, “Wise Guy Wednesday” …except, of course, this week it’s Wise Gal Wednesday.

I know, I know. This is the week of “I’m actually writing over here today.” But hey, today I’m not writing about World Vision. So there’s that.

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One Thing, Famine No More, and a Link-Up Tutorial

As I posted yesterday, I’m cohosting a link-up here, at World Vision’s blog, to benefit Famine No More, a fund to bring food and water to the victims of east Africa’s famine.

Famine no moreIt occurred to me that perhaps some of you are wondering what this link-up thing is, anyway. I’m happy to help.

What’s a link-up?

It’s a way to collect posts on a theme in one place so it’s easy to visit them all. The One Thing link-up lists blogs with posts about the One Thing fundraising campaign — what one thing will you give up to donate $10 to the Famine No More fund?

How do I join?

If you have a blog, you write a quick post about the campaign. Then you go to this post, scroll down to this button, and click”Add  your link.”linkup1

In the next window, fill in the boxes with your name or blog name, email address, and the link to your specific post (not just www.[yourblogname].com, but the whole entire link to your one thing post).linkup2

Click “Next Step!”

Select the image you want to display with your blog link.linkup3

Click “Select” or “Crop.” You’ll want to crop if your image is not a square shape already. If you select “Crop,” you can choose exactly which part of the image shows, then click “Crop selected area.” If you click “Select,” the system will choose for you.

You should return to the original page and see your link in the list.

What if I don’t have a blog?

If you don’t have a blog, you can usually respond to the prompt in the comments of the blog. For example, you can tell us about your one thing in the comments on the World Vision blog, or here on mine.

One Thing Link-Up Details

Bloggers, you can link up any time this week. Everyone, go to my post at World Vision, read some of the posts in the link-up to get ideas, and pick your one thing. Instead of spending money on that one thing, text in your $10 donation to “FAMINE” to “20222″ and join World Vision in fighting hunger in the Horn of Africa. You can text up to three times, or if you prefer to donate online, go here,  select your amount (note the last option is “other” in case you want to donate $10 but can’t text), and click “Donate Now.”

I shared our family’s one thing (except it’s actually more than one thing so we can keep donating each month through the rest of this year) here.

Help us spread the word and save lives. Share the post and the text-to-donate campaign on your blog, Facebook, Twitter, etc.

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I’m the Meanest Mom Alive

“Can I have a snack?”

“I’m so hungry mom. Is it dinnertime yet?”

“I’m starving – what can I eat? No, I don’t want that. Do you have ____?”

So much of my day revolves around my children ruled by their bellies. They eat three meals and a snack. The youngest, with his medical condition that requires additional calories, eats two snacks and, if given the chance, would graze all day long.

They fill the air with misery if I dare suggest not eating right that instant. And the days I’m caught empty-handed when they decide they’re hungry? The wailing and gnashing of teeth makes me want to rip my hair out, don sackcloth and ashes, and carry a banner touting “Meanest mom alive.”

son pointing to east africa and bolivia on a world map

What One Thing Would You Give Up?

Click here to learn how I redeemed myself (or maybe I didn’t!) on the World Vision blog, where I’m posting today. I’m so excited to share a super-easy opportunity to help with a special project and join a blog link-up! Read the post, write your own, and then come back and LINK UP to our post.

Don’t have a blog? No problem! Everyone can participate and then share in the comments there. So, what are you waiting for? Come on over and see what we’re up to.

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