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Writing Is Tricky Business | #lifeunmasked

'Frustration' photo (c) 2010, Sharon  Pak - license: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/2.0/

Instead of writing the life:unmasked post I had planned to write, I spent last night with my husband, hashing out a recent blog post of mine on church membership and church discipline. It took that long to determine that we didn’t actually disagree, but that the words I wrote didn’t convey, at least to him, the gist of my belief on the topic. My post in two sentences, in case you were confused too, should read “Commit to a local body of believers, but do it wisely” and “Church discipline is like hazardous chemicals — handle with care and as little as possible.

Of course, our conversation wasn’t limited to that post. My husband knows what I’m wrestling with these days, so we dug into that for a long time. These conversations are essential for our marriage to remain healthy, but dang. They can be really uncomfortable!

It’s frustrating to spend hours on something, only to have it fail to communicate anyway. Sometimes I want to throw in the towel and give up. But I can’t. Writing is in my DNA. I can’t not write. But I can choose to write what I know instead of what I don’t, and I can vet things with people in the know before I publish. And I can always clarify or correct when I discover that I’ve missed the mark again.

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Not quite what I had planned to write for Life:Unmasked this week, but it’s the truth, and that’s what we’re after. How we learn and grow through our mistakes, hard times, and bad days. You can join in, too.

May I ask for a special gift from you this Christmas season? Will you be generous with your comments for life:unmasked writers this month? Visit as many as you can and leave them an encouraging comment? I always ask that you visit and comment on at least one post, but this month would you try to visit and comment on at least 3? It would mean so much to me, and to the bloggers who are baring their souls.

If you want to join in, share your post (direct link, not the general link to your blog) in the linky below, and then visit at least 3 other bloggers and leave a comment for them. (If you don’t mind, would you also include a link back here, or the life:unmasked graphic in your post? The code is in my sidebar on the left. Thanks!)

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The Myth of Animosity: Join Our Peaceful Revolution

If you’ve read my blog for any length of time, you know that I was invited to visit the country of Bolivia with World Vision this past July. We went to see and write about the work they do among the most needy. Everyone on our team fell in love with the people, work, and mission of World Vision.

But, with the exception of our 8 days in Bolivia, we also picked up on a disconcerting tension in the air. It was unspoken, but we all felt this odd competition among bloggers for World Vision, Compassion, and Samaritan’s Purse.

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The tension dissolved when we were in Bolivia, where we saw exactly the kind of cooperation I hoped to see between humanitarian organizations. Each has their own wheelhouse, but no single organization can do everything. They rely on one another to fill in those gaps.

But here in the States, we sensed that different organizations don’t respect one another’s different approaches to foreign (and domestic) aid.

I don’t know all the reasons, but I suspect some of it has to do with some unspoken rules in play in North America. Rules like “don’t appear at the same event” and “don’t work with someone who is working or has worked with a different organization” may keep things less messy, but they have damaging unintended consequences. Among these are the apparent lack of good will between them and the competitive dynamic between people who choose to work with one or the other (who probably don’t know that unspoken rule that once you pick one, you can’t be asked to help the other – I know I didn’t know that!).

I had the chance to speak with Shaun Groves, the leader of Compassion’s blogging teams, at a recent blogging conference. We talked about Compassion’s approach to helping the poor in the developing world because I wanted to understand how Compassion and World Vision are alike, where they are different (and why), and how they work together.  Shaun explained that Compassion means something different than World Vision does when they use the term “child sponsorship.” Not right or wrong; just different.

Compassion partners with local churches for the long haul. They serve areas that have sufficient infrastructure and a church capable of serving as the hub for all Compassion services. Compassion focuses on individual children (and their families, by extension) so child sponsorship dollars go directly to each child, funding their education, health care, nutrition needs, and opportunities to learn about Jesus. If a community needs infrastructure or development, Compassion calls in World Vision, Samaritan’s Purse, or another organization to help because child sponsorship is all they do – they do not have the capacity to respond to disasters the way that Samaritan’s Purse and World Vision can.  Jessica is writing more about Compassion today – click here to learn more.

Give the gift of sponsorship this Christmas.

World Vision develops communities in desperate poverty who have no other aid available. They spend fifteen years in each area helping the people improve their quality of life through nutrition, clean water, personal hygiene, education, infrastructure, and faith in Jesus. Child sponsorship money helps to fund these community projects in addition to helping the individual child and their family. By the end of fifteen years, World Vision has empowered a community to lead these programs themselves, and they go to another area and start over. World Vision also has tremendous capacity in disaster and famine relief. Deb is writing more about World Vision today – click here to learn more.

When I asked Shaun about the weirdness between organizations, I learned two things. First, the tension is unique to North America – these organizations work together and respect one another well on the ground all over the world. So perception is not reality in this case. Second, politics ties the hands of those inside these organizations to do anything about the false perception. I will be honest — I found this both frustrating and disappointing.

But then I realized that I’m a free agent and immune to such politics. I’ve know the truth; I know the respective strengths of these organizations and how they work together. And I’m not alone – many of us know this same truth. That makes us the best ones to change this dynamic.

That’s why we’re doing 12 Causes for Christmas. It’s our way of showcasing the many incredible organizations doing great work in various causes, like clean water, child sponsorship, famine relief, homelessness, and more. We’re engaging in a peaceful revolution to blow the myth of competition to smithereens.

Join the peaceful revolution! Click here to learn more about the 12 Causes of Christmas and how you can get involved.

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Why You Should Date the Church

One of the church’s long-standing dirty little secrets is the weird dynamics of membership. People have debated the necessity of church membership for centuries and continue to do so today. Books like “Stop Dating the Church” scold those with commitment issues, insisting you cannot really be part of the body of Christ unless you join a local church. It all sounds great until you discover that church membership is a lot like marriage: the church can divorce you for irreconcilable differences.

Click here to read the rest of this post on Jesus Needs New PR, where I’m guest-posting today.

For a visual representation of what I blogged about, check out today’s cartoon on David Hayward’s blog, The Naked Pastor.

If you’re visiting from Jesus Needs New PR for the first time, hello!  Allow me to introduce myself (I’d love it if you’d introduce yourself in the comments, but lurkers are welcome too). Popular posts appear in the right side bar just under my Facebook Like box, if you want to check out other hot topics here.

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